Wednesday, 11 April 2018

YOU CAN WIN


8 steps on how to build a positive attitude

If you want to build and mentain a positive attitude ,you need to consciously practice the following steps:






STEP 1: CHANGE FOCUS,LOOK FOR THE POSITIVE 

You need to become a seeker of good.You need to focus on the positive in your life.Start looking for what is right in a person or situation instead of looking for the wrong .Because of our conditioning,most of us attuned to find fault and looking for the wrong that we often forget to see what's positive.

BE AN OPTIMISTIC 

how can one be optimist?
BE so strong that nothing can disturb your inner peace of mind.Talk healthy,happiness and prosperity to every persone you meet.Make all youy friends feel that you appretiate good quality and streanths .Look at the sunny side of everything .Think only the best and expect only the best.
Spend so much time improving yourself that you have no time to criticize others.Be to big to worry and too noble for anger

STEP 2:
MAKE A HABIT OF DOING IT NOW

The unfortunate part of life is as Oliver wedall holmes said"Most people go to their grave ,with music still in them."We don't achive excellence because of our lack of vision


We have all procrastinated at some time or another in our lives .I know i have,Only to regret  it later
.Procrastination leads to negative attitude .The reverse is just true .They feed on each other.The habit of procrastination fatigue you more than the effort it takes to do the task

 A COMPLETED TASK IS FULFILLING AND ENERGIZING ;AN INCOMPLETE TASK DRAINS Energy

If you want to build a positive attitude ,get into the habbit of living in the present movement and doing it now
NEVER LEAVE TILL TOMORROW , which can be done today.   
_ Benjemin Franklin 

STEP 3: DEVELOP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE

GRATITUDE reflects humility .It keeps a person grounded .It is a great philosophy to live by,'never forget what other have done for you and never remember what you have done for others 'Count your blessing not your troubles .
HOwever,When i say count your blessing i don not mean be comlacence(satisfied with yourself).

STEP 4:GET INTO CONTINUOUS EDUCATION PROGRAM

KNOWLEDGE IS NOT POWER


We are often told that knowledge is power .Not relay .Knowledge is information .It is potential power and it become power only when it is acted upon
What is the difference between a person who cannot read and a person who can does not read ?as benjimin frankln said "not a whole lot" 

  Leaning is a lot like eating .It is not how much you eat matters ,But relay how much you are able to digest

Knowledge is potential power ;wisdome is real power
EDUCATION IS

* Cultivating our strength 
* Learning self Desciplin
* Listening
*Eagerness to learn
* Developing character leading to success
 Our mind is like muscle that an streac or shrink .It all depends on how much we exercise
  If YOU think Education is expensive ,TRY ignorance     
               -Derek bok

FEED YOUR MIND
Just as our bodies need good food everyday ,our minds need positive thoughts everyday .The key words in the preceding sentence are good food and positive thoughts.
We need to feed our mind with pure and positive thoughts to stay on track.
Positive thinkers regularly build a reserve of positive attitude by constantly feeding their minds on pure ,power and positive thoughts on a daily biases.
Positive thinkers are not fools and they are not going through life with blinders.They are winners who recognize their limitation ,but focus on their strengths .Losers on the other hand ,recognizance their strengths but focus on their weakness
    .IF we commute two hours a day to utilize that time for our education by reading good books or listening to positive recorded messages,it will give us close to 500 hours of education in one year ,in the field that we want to excel in.That is equivalent to revive a post graduate

STEP 5:Build High self-Esteem
How  do you build self esteem?

IF you want to build self esteem quickly ,one of the fastest way  is to do something for those who cannot repay you in cash or kind
  Whenever we do something positive in our life ,even if no one is watching ,we rise a little bit i our own eyes.
Whenever we do something negative like lying,cheating ,stealing ,even inf no ones watching we fall down in  our own eyes
FELLING GOOD IS A NATURAL OUTCOME OF DOING GOOD AND DOING GOOD IS A NATURAL OUTCOME OF BEING GOOD

STEP 6: STAY AWAY FROM NEGATIVE INFLUENCERS

Negative influences are negative people ,drugs,alcohol ,pornography etc.All the energy influences pull people down .It depletes energy that could have been used constructively,to achive new heights
  A person character is not only judges by the company they keep but also the company they avoid
 IF YOU ASSOCIATE WITH ACHIVERS YOU BECOME ONE
 IF YOU ASSOCIATE WITH THINKERS YOU BECOME ONE
 IF YOU ASSOCIATE WITH GIVERS YOU BECOME  ONE         IF YOU ASSOCIATE WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE YOU BECOME ONE
  
IF you want to build a positive attitude ,then assosiate with people of high moral character and lead books that lead you to positive thinking.Where you will be five years from now will depend on the company you keep and the books you read today

STEP 7:Learn to LIKE THE THINGS THAT NEEDS TO BE DONE

START BY DOING WHAT IS NECESSARY  THEN WHAT IS POSSIBLE AND SUDDENLY YOU ARE DONG THE IMPOSSIBLE 
Does an athlete always like to go for practice ? Probably not.But he does it anyways.Some things needs to be done whether you like it or not;For example ,mothers carrying for their young.This might not always be fun and may even be painful,but if we learn to like the task,the impossible become possible

STEP 8:START YOUR DAY BY SOMETHING POSITVE
RAD OR LISTEN SOMETHING POSITIVE IN THE  MORNING
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After a good night sleep we are relaxed and our subconscious is receptive .It set the tone for the day and puts us in the right frame of mind to make the day a positive day .In order to bring about change ,we need to make a conscious effort and be committed to make positive thoughts and behavior daily until they become a habit 
IF YOU WANT TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL START RIGHT NOW


IF YOU FOLLOW THE ABOVE  8 STEPS YOU WILL BE A WINNER


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